Support Groups & Coping Skills
Support Groups
If you are a survivor who has endured silence, shame, guilt, or a lack of support from others in your life, a support group may be a helpful option. Support groups can provide an opportunity to connect with others who have similar experiences, help to reduce common symptoms of trauma, and uplift survivors as they move forward in their healing process. Every survivor’s experience is unique, but being in a group with those who have a shared understanding of sexual violence can be a powerful form of support and validation.
HEAL Support Group (Boston Campus)
HEAL is an 8-week psychoeducational support group for survivors of sexual assault. The group is open to undergraduate students and graduate students of all genders and is open to new members at the start of each Fall and Spring semester.
HEAL is co-facilitated by staff in University Health and Counseling Services (Kelly Saramago, LMHC) and the Office of Prevention and Education at Northeastern (Elizabeth Coscia, LCSW)
If you have interest in being added to our outreach list to be notified of the next HEAL offering for Spring 2025, please reach out directly to Elizabeth Coscia at e.coscia@northeastern.edu. Updated information about all support group offerings is also available on the UHCS Support Groups web page.
Discussion topics covered often include:
- Understanding common reactions to trauma
- Self-care and coping strategies
- Boundary setting
- Disclosures (who to tell about your experience and what to say)
- Navigating relationships and intimacy after trauma
- Self-esteem and self-image after trauma
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is eligible for the HEAL group?
Students must be eligible for University Health and Counseling Services (UHCS) to participate in the group. UHCS services are available for:
- All undergraduate students
- All Law school students
- Graduate students who have either enrolled in the Student Health Plan or who have paid the student health fee
- Students in special programs by prior arrangement.
The HEAL group is open to survivors of all gender identities.
The HEAL group is available to students on the Boston campus only, as the group meets in-person at UHCS (135 Forsyth Street, First Floor).
What are reasons someone may or may not be a good fit for the group?
HEAL might be a good fit if you:
- You want to feel less alone in your healing process
- You want to connect with other survivors
- You already have some coping skills in place but you want more
- You can tolerate talking about the topics of sexual violence in a group setting
- You want to both give and receive support to others with related experiences
HEAL may not be a good fit for you (at least at this time) if:
- You want a space to more directly and individually process the trauma you’ve experienced (such as with an individual therapist)
- You feel that talking about sexual violence/assault in this context may cause your symptoms to worsen
- Your experience with assault has been very recent and you may first need to build coping skills or connect with other resources before joining
- You are currently in crisis
- You are having difficulty managing symptoms such as dissociation or flashbacks which may interfere with the group process
- You have schedule conflicts that would make it difficult or impossible to commit to coming to group weekly
- You are not looking for connection and community with other survivors
Please note that the information listed above is for your consideration only. The decision to join HEAL is ultimately made by interested students in collaboration with group facilitators after a pre-group meeting. If you are interested in the group but are not sure if it would be the right fit, we encourage you to contact the group co-facilitators (see above).
(Adapted from Boston College Women’s Center 2023)
Will I be expected to share my whole story with others in the group?
Members of the HEAL group are not expected or prompted to share the details of their experience with others during the group. HEAL is what is called a “Phase 1 Trauma Group,” meaning the focus is on exploring useful ways to cope with common symptoms/challenges, and to discuss the different ways sexual assault impacts group members’ lives now instead of focusing directly on members’ stories or narratives of their experience.
Can I join HEAL once it has started for the semester?
HEAL is a closed group, meaning once the group begins for the semester, new members are not added. This is done intentionally so that the group can serve as a safe and consistent environment for members to connect with one another over the course of the 7 or 8 weeks. If HEAL is currently full but you have interest in joining future groups, please contact the co-facilitators seen above to be placed on the interest list.
Finding a Support Group in Your Location
SVRC staff can work with students in Northeastern’s Global University System to identify supports in their area.
The following are some support groups that can be accessed virtually:
- Survivors Network of Those Abused by Priests (SNAP) – Support Groups (for survivors of clergy/religious sexual abuse)
Request a Grounding Kit (Boston Campus)
The SVRC offers free grounding kits for those impacted by sexual trauma. Grounding is a technique that can be used to cope with symptoms of trauma. Kits contain supplies like mints, a stress ball, coloring supplies and Play-Doh. Students can pick up Grounding Kits during a meeting with SVRC staff or by filling out the request form below.
Healing Handbook
The Healing Handbook is a resource developed by SVRC staff that offers information, tools, and grounding skills for survivors of sexual violence. Topics include: the impact of trauma on the mind and body; coping and grounding skills; understanding the emotional, physical, and interpersonal impacts of sexual trauma; seeking support and healing; and more.
Healing Hub Listserv
Created by SVRC staff members, Healing Hub is a newsletter centered around survivorship and tools for healing. The newsletter contains resource spotlights, events across the Global University System, and coping and grounding skills.
For information on events related to survivorship and healing, follow us on @nuhealthandwellness.