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If you’ve experienced any form of sexual violence, we want you to know that it is not your fault, and you are not alone. Below is some information about options for immediate support, including actions that may be more time-sensitive.  

Please know that OPEN’s Sexual Violence Resource Center staff members are also available to confidentially discuss resources and options with you. Regardless of your location, students can set up an appointment by completing this confidential service request form.

For information about immediate support, medical treatment, 24/7 support, and reporting options, see the Know Your Options guides for resources specific to each location.

If you are experiencing stalking…

  • Consider your digital safety. This Tech Safety Site offers more information and tips about what you can do if you are being stalked or harassed online. For example, you can turn off location sharing in the privacy settings of your phone.

  • Make a safety plan.  A safety plan is a plan to help you reduce your risk of harm. You may put this together yourself or with a trusted friend, although it may be helpful to work with a trained professional, such as staff from OPEN’s Sexual Violence Resource Center (add link). SPARC offers these stalking safety strategies, and the National Center for Victims of Crime offers this information about stalking safety planning. 

  • End all communication with the person stalking you. SPARC offers tips for how to express your desire for no contact.  A few of their examples include, “Do not call, stop by, text, or contact me in any way whatsoever.” “I do not want you to contact me in any way. If you continue to do so – or if you are on my property, or follow me – I will call the police.” 

  • If the person stalking you is a member of the Northeastern community, you have the option to get a no-contact order. A no-contact order restricts direct or indirect communication of all kinds (verbal, written, social media) between two Northeastern community members. (This is not the same as a restraining order). To issue a no-contact order, contact the Office of University Equity and Compliance (OUEC). 

Find more information for victims of stalking on the Victim Connect Website and The Stalking Resource Center.  

If you are experiencing dating or domestic violence…

If you are currently in a relationship that’s unhealthy or abusive, or have been in one previously, please know that it is not your fault and that you are not alone. There are many people on and off campus ready and waiting to support you when you are ready. Staff at the Sexual Violence Resource Center can help to talk through options. Below are some considerations. 

  • Call for help. Find a space where you are safe and away from your partner- a friend’s, a public place, or an office on campus. If you’re in immediate danger see “if you are afraid for your safety” above. 

  • Seek medical care if you are injured. Victims of domestic violence often suffer head injuries. If you are experiencing memory loss, dizziness, headaches that won’t go away, or problems with eyesight, get medical care immediately. For medical care in your area, see our resources by location page.

  • Create a safety plan, if you are worried about your future safety, or are considering leaving your partner. Think about safe places and people as well as items you might want to have with you. Trusted people can help you to talk through it, including staff from OPEN’s Sexual Violence Resource Center. Please note: threats or violence may escalate if your partner knows you are leaving. 

  • Find a safe place to stay. The University offers temporary safe rooms on its Boston, Oakland, and London campuses. See our resources by location for more options.

  • If the other person is a member of the Northeastern community, you have the option to get a no-contact order. A no-contact order restricts direct or indirect communication of all kinds (verbal, written, social media) between two Northeastern community members. This is not the same as a restraining order (see below). To issue a no-contact order, contact the Office of University Equity and Compliance (OUEC). 

  • If you seeking a protective/civil restraint/restraining order, which would prohibit individuals from physically being in the same space, contact your local police department. They can discuss options and accompany you to a local court.

  • If someone has violated a protective/civil restraint/restraining order you already have, call your local police department. Keep a copy of it with you at all times. Encourage others in your life to report a violation as well. 

  • If you want to explore options for a change in housing, academic support, or a leave of absence, a case manager from WeCare can assist you.